Loveless Hurt.

I am hurt, because those who love are proving to be incapable.
I am hurt, because those who taught me to love have become enslaved by the power of deceit.
I choose not to hurt because they are the ones who allowed for me to become strong and
with that I am free of the inhibitions of guilt.

With that I am free of the despair that leaves me darkened in the presence of their souls.
I am here for eternity for I know now what I did not know before,
In the words of my heart, I choose to soar high and
to the ones that choose to hurt me, I choose to leave behind.

The hurt within the disconnect will forever remain unashamed,
For the hurt that you have brought into my soul is no longer the cause or blame.
Of the way, in which I choose to be.
No longer a part of your soul
And when the time comes that you reflect on your conduct,
Your time will be of mold.

Bon Lundi mes amis
Khaleesi x

P.S. "One day, the people that did not believe in you will tell everyone how they met you." - Johnny Depp.

I Have To Celebrate You Baby!

There are few better feelings than the feeling of progression. An expression recently came to mind and that is: 'He who knows not how to break through the laws of love, knows only the law of a loveless life.' - Ipeleng Motuba. 

It is so important for us to hone our skills of loving ourselves and the people by whom we choose to surround ourselves with. To maturely accept the criticisms that those who love us, have to offer - without absorbing their words as an attack, rather understanding the ways in which they hope to influence our own progression in life. 

There is never a good time to have your feelings hurt by a loved one, but there is always a good time to forgive within the hurt and to heal together in a way that allows for the refreshment of the existing love. Whether it be the love and hurt between friends, families or partners, there is always a period through which we are bound to heal, for the power of hurt is merely a by-product of the power of love and without that love, there would be no hurt to explore in the first place. There is always a time to remember the ways in which we express our sense of despair towards one another and a time in which we should reflect on the expressions that are exchanged.

How is it that we are so hastily disturbed by another person's truth? Is it due to the fact that we are conditioned to believe only in the wrongdoings of another being; therefore, we should always remember them in that burdened light? Or should we rather subject ourselves to the ideals of spiritual reform which allow for us to deflect these wrongdoings in a manner that is peaceful and all-encompassing of the ways in which we wish to rectify the defiance of one soul to another? The latter, being the harder condition to follow always ends up being the most rewarding and there is no better way to inform ourselves of being true to our sense of well-being than allowing for the spirit, the heart, the breath and the love to guide us towards our ultimate destination of self. 

Thank you for being a part of my journey and for always helping me to look forward to the fulfilment of what lies ahead.

Have a beautiful weekend and remember to always strive for the kind of love that allows for the expansion of the soul.

Best,

Khaleesi x

P.S. "'He who knows not how to break through the laws of love, knows only the law of a loveless life.'

WHY I FEEL LIKE A WINNER.

Cajun Chicken Strips Served On A Bed Of Sun-dried Tomato Roasted Potatoes and a Fresh Pineapple Sauce. 

Today is one of those days of reflection whereby, I have been encouraged by the ideals of my subconscious to always believe in my worth as an individual. It was at the beginning of 2013, when I was stunned to find myself walking through the corridors of a place that I used to call, 'One of my other homes', Capsicum Culinary Studio. 

When I was eighteen years old (fearing that I would fail my Matric year - because that was a high expectation of some of the people around me), I spoke to my, now angel-Mother, who encouraged me to always strive to become someone who is in love with what they do. A global ambassador of self-actualisation who is: constantly pushing the boundaries of her potential. One who never gives up on her dreams to thrive. She always told me that it would be in my best interests to find a job that would allow for me to see the world and engage people from all corners of our planet, in a manner that is: cautious, loving and all-encompassing of the energy that I wish to attract. 

It was then that I decided that I would love to immerse myself in a career that allows for me to experience all of the above-mentioned aspects of being alive. Due to fortunate/unfortunate circumstances, my plans to head out into the world were put on hold for five years after I successfully completed high-school; as I rather agreed to attempt to pursue a career in Law. I am highly interested in the Laws of our nations and as I grow older, I realise that there is so much time to still pursue anything that I choose to. This is one of the best qualities of time - you are the only one who can manage what it is that you do with it. To own your time is a self-inflicted privilege that I believe many of us are daunted to engage with. With this in mind, I also understand that perhaps the timing in which I chose to take on my studies of legal chemistry was premature (in the sense that I was not yet ready to explore a career that dissatisfies my yearning to lead a semi-nomadic lifestyle) - A life where I am able to paint the world with a talent that has been bestowed upon me through the grace of the Universe. When I am ready, of course, I will complete my other degree, but right now is the only time that matters to me and I feel honoured to be so deeply in love with what I do. 

After many years of trying to get through Law School (whilst working as a Chef during my spare time), I was able to convince my creators that: allowing for me to enroll at an institution that accredits one with an International ability to take over the culinary industry, anywhere in the world, would be more beneficial to my ambitions in becoming the best Culinary Artist to ever exist; than trying to make a name for myself by working as a chef on the side.

A dear family friend of mine, Mr Itumeleng Morule, came to eat at a restaurant that I was working at, just off of Jan Smuts Avenue in Johannesburg, South Africa. I remember how impressed the kitchen staff would be, owing to my bringing in a new customer to the restaurant, everyday - I must give thanks to my folks for having a wide network of friends who decided to fornicate and reproduce at least three times a pair - for it is their reproductive nature that has enabled my knowing of a lot of people. 

My very talented head chef at the time, Chef Maureen, allowed for me to prepare his (Itumeleng's) meal for him without the assistance of any other member of our team. I walked up to him, with his special dish in hand and all I said is: "Za-tuum, if this meal is the one, please wait until after my shift and  help me to convince my father that I was born to be a chef?". Tumi, as he is so lovingly known, is a man who has such charisma, that he could persuade the devil to play with fire. My father was not only impressed by his raving words of the 'Orrichiete Pasta' that I made him, but he could see with what dedication and passion I was putting into my work. The hours of cheffing are so intense, that they could almost put those of new parents to shame. At the time, I was averaging 12 - 17 hour shifts, five days a week. 

Today, as I sit here and look at this plate that I created from a 'mystery basket' task that we were challenged with in week three of Culinary School.I feel so proud to have a father who opened his mind up to my dream. I feel blessed to have been born from a mother who taught me to always fight for my freedom. I am so lucky to have the many brothers and sisters that I do - who are continually giving me the go ahead to continue to do what I love. I mean, these are the people who I have been surrounded by, my whole life. They are the most hardcore, super-disciplined academics who inspire me to grow into a better person, everyday. They are artists of intellect, success, respect and most importantly, self-love. With them by my side and with my vision in sight, I know that doing is believing and that dreaming is forever.

I want to thank you all - my sisters, my friends, my family-friends (who provide me with such a strong system of consistent love and support) and most importantly, my amazing mothers and fathers (all 20+ of them).

Without you, there would be no me and without me, there would be a lack of fulfillment in my dreams.

I wish you all the best love that you can fathom, from the depths of my heart.

Best,

Khaleesi of the *Universe* x

P.S. "Only playas go on blind dates." - Mogwanti.

L'Amour S'emporte!

Bisous,

Khaleesi Ipel x

The Love Below.

When we consider our expectations within the bonds that are created in a loving relationship, what is it that we really expect to achieve? When it comes to the love shared between blood relations, we are forced into a state of co-habitation that allows for us to experience each other from the time that we are born into the same families; thus allowing for us to engage each other in the same space for long periods of time, with no escape. When one reflects on the ideals of learning to love a person who is undoubtedly a stranger to the soul, then the complexities that arise within that learning seem to appear more and more as time continues to allow for us to explore each other in every possible light that we find ourselves in darkness. 

The key element to the recovery of the pain that exists within a loving relationship is to allow for the other person to always express themselves from the point of anger, to the point of success. From the conception of sadness to the revelation of elation. What is it that you are willing to fight for and/or against once you have recognised another soul's entrapment of your own. The subconscious understanding of fear met with the denial that one person could love you so much in the sense that he/she is willing to make the ultimate sacrifice; in the hopes of preserving such a love, is something that I believe we are always submissive to (the fear, that is.). We are often taught that for every action there is a reaction, but we are not taught that this is a revolving occurrence that can lead us into a state of despair; followed by the renewal of something that was initially meant to be.

The vows of marriage read that we should love each other: In sickness and in health. In good times and in bad. For better or for worse. If we primarily allow for ourselves to adhere to these vows when it comes to the point of a union blessed by the Gods, then how can we really prepare for them in the times that lead up to this point in a loving relationship with a stranger. We need to keep ourselves aligned with these vows in relationships that we create for ourselves in order to have the ability to take them in our stride when the time comes that we have believed in the love that we all wish to indulge in, from one lifetime to the next. With that one person that we believe to be "The One" - for us. 

My mother once wrote a love letter to my father and the climax of this letter read that: "The quarrels of lovers are the renewal of love.". This is one of the most essential statements of love because, to me, it portrays the desire for us to constantly fall in love with the one that we have chosen to love. It is a choice to allow yourself to be in love with another person, it is not easy, because we, as human beings, believe that we must suffer in times of happiness due to the fact that we are conditioned to overcomes trials and tribulations. The beauty of it all is that when you are truly committed to someone and they are truly committed to you, you will find a way to overcome the levels of discomfort that are brought about in moments of angst towards one another. This is what the idealistic nature of love ought to be. A fight for the chosen one. A fight for the outcome of the bigger picture. A fight towards the growth of your union and a fight towards the undying bond that you wish to explore.

When you look into the eyes of the one you love, do you recognise the soul that is looking back at you? Until the day that we feel that we have the burning desire to look into the depths of the soul of another, we should continue to love beyond the pain and allow for ourselves to reach a higher power that is cultivated from within our hearts. 

This is the ultimate purpose of love. 

The love below, that allows for the resurfacing of the love above.

To my love. To my chosen soul. To the one for me. - 

Believe in me, believe in thee, believe in an everlasting us.

Gros Bisous,

Khaleesi of the *UNIVERSE*

P.S. "The quarrels of lovers are the renewal of love." - Jean Racine. 

Tortured Souls.

There are few ideals that are aligned with human interaction. From a young age, we are taught to show each other respect, love, loyalty and the undying willingness to help each other to grow. What happens though, when the universe pairs two naturally dark souls? They either become extremely self-destructive and allow for the darkness to cloud their abilities to trust in the love that is presented before them – or – they are given the opportunity to create a new sense of light that enables them to strive for a better sense of all-round being, unbeknown to their consciousness.

When we continuously hurt each other, we are only going against the grain of Mother Nature’s deepest desire for us to unite in our pain and stand forcefully in our love for one another. I expressed in a conversation with some of my loved ones the other day, that the Church does not explore the truths expressed in the book of Revelations. There is a passage that reads of how man believes himself to be omnipotent, to the extent that he is abusive towards other species are found within this beautiful space that we call planet earth. What we are not taught is that God will bring about disaster upon disaster that man cannot surpass; thus revealing to us that there is a greater power out there, which will someday remove us from each other’s presence.  I am more-so spiritual than religious, but this passage articulates an honesty that extends not only to the ways in which we are becoming more complacent in our existence as a whole, but also to the manner in which we are able to casually disregard the spirit of another being, that we are supposedly connected to in love and especially sexual interrelations.

When one tortured soul is attracted to another, that is considerably worse off, what are the benefits that lie between the natures of their interaction? Why is it so much easier to break the spirit of the one who is constantly appreciative of the elevation of self and selves alike? Have we as a race, gone so far into our negative selfishness, that we are unable to recognise the love that others wish to unfold in unison with the growth that we hope to acquire, as individuals? These are the multifaceted questions that can only be allowed a genuine response, once we begin to understand that we are here to save ourselves; as well as the few others that are strategically brought through into our present lives – either from the experiences encountered in our past lives or for the purposes of creating a grandeur sense of meaning to the lives that we wish to flourish in, today. It is up to us to take ownership of the letting go of our innate pride in order to successfully nourish the bonds that we are so blessed to be a part of.

It is only once we come to terms with our demons that we too, will be able to become born again, in love, physical connection, emotional awareness and an all-round sensation of harmonious existence. 

We need to better appreciate the fulfilment  of the special ones who are gifted to us by a greater source of enlightenment; whether it is: ancestral, spiritual or for a general awakening of the soul’s worth. It is only when we start to recognise ourselves as each other’s keepers that we will be of a new energy that is all encompassing of the love and commitment that we so desperately seek to uphold.

Best Love,

Khaleesi Ipel of the *Universe*


P.S.  “I believe in the immeasurable power of love; that true love can endure any circumstance and reach across any distance.”  

― Steve Maraboli, Unapologetically You: Reflections on Life and the Human Experience

ATTENTION!

IF YOU ARE IN BUENOS AIRES, RIGHT NOW... 

PLEASE GO AND HAVE LUNCH AT

"OUI OUI". 

Address: Nicaragua 6068, City of Buenos Aires, Buenos Aires, Argentina.

Khaleesi x

P.S. "Among the lucky, you are the chosen one." - Fortune Cookie Loving :)

"PLANET EARTH IS SPECIAL, BECAUSE 

OF US!"

- Master Khumo Ndlovu.

I find it highly fascinating, whenever I come across people whose success is aligned with my deepest desires. In this life and the ones to follow, I pledge for us to consistently adhere to the calling of our nature. In light of doing-so, we should always attempt to carry those surrounding us, towards greater heights, wherever we can. 

A few months ago, I found myself thrust into my dream job, under the strong guidance of a man whom I knew very little about. I was amazed to learn of my Head Chef, David Higgs and his abundance of success as a world-class chef. The Namibian raised philanthropist, reminisces on the ideals of sharing family meals and indulging in the art of fishing as a young scholar - amidst a brief sit-down I had, with the country's number one. His love for imparting knowledge on others is evident in his educational techniques; which require: great attention to clarity, immense strength and a hint of militant precision. 

I believe that the most powerful of people have a calming ability to silence a room with their presence. This is the inspirational respect that I have witnessed upon working under the strong guidance of Chef David Higgs. The ways in which he leads a team and specifically the one in our kitchen, is admirable in its own light and it no longer comes to me, as a surprise, that he has achieved grandeur status, within his career as a Culinary Artist. The Food Cycle is a foundation which he initiated through his love for uplifting the community and his spirit of 'togetherness'. It is the epitome of the balance between nutrition, physical activity and the acquisition of knowledge in all forms.

"Superman" - A core fitness technique being demonstrated by super-cyclist, Tshepo Nyrenda.

Food Cycle is aimed at coordinating the rehabilitation of previously and currently disadvantaged children; by means of redirecting their energy towards the activity of cycling and creating a hub through which they can gain access to their nutritional well-being and its maintenance herewith.

www.foodcycle.co.za

Anyone who believes in saving the children, is to be commended for the thought alone. It is of grave importance that we begin to open our minds up to the social dynamics of our societies as a whole. The type of education that one can gain through food education paired with the implementation of nutritional small-scale farming, will benefit our successors in the days to come. It makes me ecstatic to know that there are individuals, near and far who are confidently exploring the ultimate dream, to eradicate hunger. This is why I am in love with what I do, because every other day, I am propelled towards the true purpose of my existence. A healthy body begets a healthy mind and this, is the  outstanding goal. 

Together with my fellow colleagues, Tshepo (left) and Tendani (right), Chef David is pushing the envelope of interaction, in the hopes of making significant changes to the lives of surviving individuals in our community. We ought to give thanks for: the opportunities that we are presented with daily, our abilities to have a deeper understanding for our sense of purity and in our yearning to enlighten others to thrive in their own right.

Thank you for the inspiration. May the enrichment of your efforts, bear fruit atop the exploration of self and selves-alike.

Best,

Khaleesi Ipeleng x

P.S. Keep Eating... For Life!

WE BEHAVING BAD!

This song is the one! Listen to that drum... This is the Skateboard P that I know.

The flow of his rhythm paired with the synchronisation of the rah-tah-tah of the snap-drum in the background places a thrifty melodic tune on the ear.

Thank you for the music!

HAPPY SATURDAY!

Best,

Khaleesi x

P.S. " 'Banging on that ass like Orangutan...' "

KEEP EATING... WELL!

One of the reasons why I love travelling, is because of all the great food that I am allowed to explore across the world. It is so important to experience as much of different environment as possible and considering my line of work, I am always keen to try out new restaurants, local street food and other-such indulgences of different nations. Sometime, a week or so ago, I was privileged to meet a beautiful woman from Rotterdam, in the Netherlands, named Yootha. 

"It was love, at firrrrrst sight."

Thanks to a common friend, we were set up on what appears to be the only 'blind date' that I have ever enjoyed... Not that I have been on many, because 'only playas go on blind dates' ;)

With that said, I was so excited to meet this great spirit and she happened to introduce me to one of the best luncheon spots that I have ever been to:

'Bagel Bakery and Burgers', 
is a quaint restaurant, situated on the most popular, 'Witte De WithStraat'. This is the contemporary hub of the city; as the street is filled with a romantic atmosphere and happy individuals who are excited to be a part of life's process.

When last did you see a bagel dressed so well?

This is a home-made bagel with: hummus, roasted: baby marrows, aubergine, peppers and tomato; topped with fresh onion, herbs and a drizzle of: olive oil and balsamic vinegar.

What a dream meal!

Met vriendelijke groete,

Khaleesi Ipeleng x

P.S. Food is life... Life is Food!